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>timing

25 Mar

>Its a funny thing being friends, yet having those thin boundaries. Its easy to cross over and get into the twilight zone between familiarity and extreme closeness.

Recent events in life have proved that sometimes its good to just back off. Over familiarity breeds weirdness. Offering a ear when it is not needed creates awkwardness. Sometimes I think Im sensitive to whats going on, but I go the extra mile and try and be there, when the other person might not really need/want it. In such times its best to let go and lend a ear, if ask. IF asked.

That’s probably another thing Iv learnt in recent time. Its all about timing. To do everything in its time. Not before. Not after. JUST WHEN.

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9 Responses to “>timing”

  1. nil March 25, 2011 at 11:16 am #

    >"Over familiarity breeds weirdness. "—-> SO.TRUE.couldn't agree more!

  2. Citrus March 25, 2011 at 11:21 am #

    >What a nice post.

  3. hAAthi March 25, 2011 at 12:47 pm #

    >:) really? this was semi-rant-semi-thinking-out-loud

  4. Ranjan Atreya March 25, 2011 at 1:20 pm #

    >Hmmm

  5. nakedswaMi March 26, 2011 at 11:25 am #

    >macha, after going to goa youv become one numbers philosopher a?

  6. VC March 26, 2011 at 2:13 pm #

    >Yes aa? who da? who din listen??

  7. hAAthi March 26, 2011 at 2:33 pm #

    >nangee: yes, im now gyaani maharaj.vc: il tell you later, its a secret ;)

  8. ☆ Crazy Diamond ☆ March 26, 2011 at 8:14 pm #

    >exactly !!!

  9. Karishma Sundaram March 28, 2011 at 9:46 am #

    >So true. Awful to be thought of as nosy/intrusive, eh? Good intentions totally misunderstood. :-(

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