Alternate headline options:
- Shitty, shitty September.
- Wake me up when September ends.
- Good riddance to bad rubbish
Pretty much all of September was eclipsed by Mercury going into retrograde. And I really felt the effects of it completely this time around. Right from a breakdown of communication and misunderstandings in relationships at the start of the month, the inability to think in a calm manner and plan ahead that stayed right through the month, the sluggish energy on the work front with nothing new materialising, a technological emergency that couldn’t be fixed, down to significant sleep deprivation which then has a ripple effect leading to confusion, irritability and overall impatience. Additionally, there were the effects specific to this retrograde: being overly self-critical, especially when outcomes were less than perfect, way too much energy spent in over analysing the changes I want to bring, when really nothing was likely to move ahead until the entire phase had passed. That pretty much summed up my September.
If I’d read any of this before September began, I’d have put it down to knowing too much too soon and being paranoid. But I only found out a lot of this stuff yesterday. It is sometimes is a little ironic, but mostly uncanny when things play out entirely to a plan outside of us and our brains, that we have not too much control over, regardless of how we feel about that lack of power. And that in itself is something I felt resound in my head over and over again last month.
It was such a meh month, that I don’t even want to go over it. But as always, it’s only in retrospect that I am able to connect the dots. And I see now how every little insignificant, seemingly disjointed, shitty event was actually linked, building up to the way things peaked on 30th September. It bubbled over and on 1st October, I made a decision that has been the first step forward, outside of the confusion I’ve been feeling.
Overly emotional and thankful for my friends.
Disjointed thoughts that I gave up on.
When the self-doubt hit hard, I had thoughts about work, that were more a means to reassure myself than anyone else.
Before I depress myself anymore, there was some good stuff too:
Our eighth anniversary, was the only bright spark all month, I think.
This assignment that was a staycation in disguise.
In which I also decided to stop being confused, and decided to start working it out.
Decision about doing a 100km cycle ride was taken, and it turned out to be the best decision ever.
OH, AND. I started a newsletter. Which you can sign up for by adding in your email id here.
Bas, that’s all. Off with your head, September. Be gone, now!